Mothers and Daughters: Issues!

Ever since I decided to return to work after five years of health related absence, and create a weekend for Mothers and Daughters on Mother’s Day weekend, the issues are pouring out of everybody.

So how was your childhood?

This all important time in our human development is tossed aside by society, and everything is left to a young mother to deal with. We may have a helper, usually not a man, often our mother. When we become mothers we notice that there is no good will toward mothers being mothers in public. If she needs to nurse her baby, she is called disgusting. Her breast, with a suckling babe is banned as obscene from the cover of baby magazines!

The mammalian breasts, these all important, often artificially enlarged tits, filled with silicone or salt water, yes they are worth lots of money. You cannot sell a doormat today without someone showing off the tits.

Just to gaze at them, masturbate at their sight, touching them costs more, but you regret it, it’s stone hard.

But those same tits, those mammalian breasts, are for the baby, and its food. Well that’s just disgusting isn’t it? Babies are in competition with grown males, who want the mammalian breasts serving them for getting hard. In the mammalian world grown males have most of the power in our patriarchal society, and in that world men and babies are enemies.

(We are not alone in this, Polar bears do this too. The males kill the young ones.)

Men envy the little ones, they have natural access to mammalian pleasures, and they have the right where males no longer dare to suck, tits full of nourishment with mother’s milk.

So as mothers we have to fight for the right to make more humans and pay the full price in time and energy and bear the shame of it as well. Just to raise our infants. To feed the babies. This translates into many disadvantages. Mothers are often alone, no money, cannot go to work, they are then despised as parasites who are “working the system.” Sometimes mothers flip out mentally from stress or post-partum depression, then they are called monsters. But if women got paid for creating new citizens, new customers for all kind of businesses, women would not be poor anymore. How much would a full grown tax paying citizen be worth? Millions.

As daughters I think the main issue that comes up is “Mother didn’t protect me. “ Mother didn’t protect me against my father, brothers, the male world. This lack of female power is the first clue to a girl that she has the wrong sex between her legs. The sexual apartheid is clearly visible to even a four year old, from god the father to the son also a boy, no female to pray to unless you are Catholic. Then you are already in training for Goddess worship, since the Holy Mother is the Great Goddess.

Powerlessness is not attractive to children. Daughters suffer humiliation seeing mother abdicate or get deposed from her position of Giver of All Life. Boys stop identifying with the powerless parent. Where the wisdom treasure lies about our moms is in reflection. One contemplates the mother’s situation and often we discover that she made choices towards survival more than our comfort. She wanted us to grow up, just that took a lot, and gain the power back. But she herself was not in the position to do so.

With the Boomer generation it will be quite the opposite. Boomer women turned this around, and took power as mothers and fought back from victimhood. In fact this is the first generation of women when Motherhood and Daughterhood has improved. When motherhood is chosen and taken on as a profession. Not just a sideline or simply to survival level only.

In the 21st century women take on motherhood independent from males, using the clinically screened sperm but not having to look after a grown man as well in the bargain.

Fathers when they are fathers with their life energy are important and needed. But males who sire offspring are not always the same as real fathers. These guys either move on, and cannot really give up themselves to an other human being, be it a child or a woman. This is the reason 51 percent of American females live without a man and like it. The nuclear family was a big scam, where child abuse was hidden from the world, the pain of mothers and daughters covered up in secrecy.

In this sub Age of Aquarius, transparency is exposing the dirty laundry of the nuclear family, as little prisons, filled with pain. Now on TV and media all the reality shows show us the wrinkles of humanity. The women are turning away from the nuclear family concept. They need mommy networks who help and support one another more than they need another person to take care of. In small ways these networks exist in the Leche movement where mothers share breast milk with each other.

What we need is a great sea change of culture where women/ mothers are treasured every day, get paid for services, and are given the networks to weave the web of life and not feel a